Manifestation Not Working for You?

Manifestation and Weight Loss

Everyone I talk to says they believe in the power of manifestation.

Also known as “our thoughts become things.”

I believe this too!

In fact, this time last year I manifested the man of my dreams. Except I had no idea I was doing it.

On a Friday night last October as I was falling asleep I said to myself, it would be really nice to find a guy. I am ready to settle down. (for those of who you are not aware of how you can make the subconscious mind work for you make sure to read “The Power of Your Subconscious Mind”  by Joseph Murphy Ph.D).

2 days later while getting my afternoon workout in I met HIM.

He swept me off my feet. He was everything I had ever wanted and a lot of what I didn’t even know I was looking for wrapped up in this 6’5 bundle of hunkin’ gorgeous. He made it clear he was not looking for anything casual, expressed his strong feelings for me and the relationship moved quickly!

I was in heaven!

A few months later he was gone.

(Before I go further into this story NO he is not dead!)

I’d been ghosted. Prior to this event, I had no idea what that even meant. I was devastated. MY WORST FEAR HAD COME TRUE!

I thought, “Alas, all men are jerks, liars, cheaters, unreliable and untrustworthy. JUST LIKE I THOUGHT.

Did you catch that last sentence?

“Just like I thought.”

Because as much as I’d love to throw all the blame on him what I failed to mention is that about 2 weeks into us dating my deep-rooted fears of abandonment and being lied to began to pop its ugly head into my fairytale dreams and consume my thoughts.

So tell me, if I had the power to manifest my dream man, wouldn’t it also be possible that instead I manifested a beautiful, charming, lying, unreliable man rather than what I really wished for, but didn’t truly believe existed?

You see we either believe that our thoughts become things or we don’t.

And if you are sitting here and thinking to yourself I KNOW MY THOUGHTS HAVE BECOME THINGS (or life experiences)  then you need to take ownership and realize that ALL your thoughts are influencing your life experience, not just the “good” ones.

Manifestation doesn’t just pick the nice stuff. Manifestation is not only the sticky notes we put on the bathroom mirror.

Manifestation is actually our deep-seeded beliefs about ourselves, our lives, men, women, work, love, etc.

Manifestation & Men: How Manifesting Shows Up in Your Relationships:

Ever wonder why you always seem to attract the same pattern of men such as…

  • Married men?
  • Men that come on strong and drop off the face of the earth?
  • Men that don’t take charge?
  • Men that don’t have the same level of education as you? OR men that only make certain income level?

Manifestation & Money: What Kind of a Financial Life are You Manifesting?

Or ever wonder why you always seem to be in the same boat with your money such as…

  • Having just enough to pay your bills (not a dollar more)?
  • Always being exactly $200 short every month.

Do you have the belief that there is never enough, so even if you do make an extra $500 the next day you will find yourself in some unforeseen circumstance where (down to the dollar) that extra money has to be used up?

Our life experiences are a mirror of our inner beliefs. That’s why if you have the belief that everything you touch turns to gold, or you are a man magnet, or making money is easy, then everything you experience will solidify that belief.

The same is true for the negative. That is why when we believe that life is a struggle, relationships are hard, or all men cheat it becomes so difficult to shift our thinking – because situations will show up to confirm our fears.

To put this in another way, we attract at our vibration.

For example: If a woman has been abused her entire life, then even though she (more than anyone) needs love, kindness, and sensitivity, her experience with abuse and associating abuse with love will make it so that her frequency would not be a match for any man who could actually give her the level affection she so desired, as much as she may want unconditional love, compassion, and kindness.

Real unconditional love would not be comfortable to her, so she would find herself stuck in a pattern of continuing to vibrate on the same level as (or attract) men that continued to reaffirm her beliefs of what love, relationship, and men are about.

How to Manifest Weight Loss (and Anything Else You Want in Life):

Here is the good news!

If right now you are struggling to lose weight, be financially free, or call in an amazing man, it is in your capacity to do so.

You just need to reprogram what you’ve picked up through your family heritage, childhood and life experiences.

Want to know more?

This is the exact work that I do with my clients.

When working with private clients I go to the deep-rooted (sometimes hidden) limiting beliefs that are stopping them from living the life they want!

By vibrating at a frequency of love, joy, hope, freedom, and confidence you will draw in experiences that resonate with that exact frequency in all areas of your life!

That’s why looking good in a bikini has less to do with how you physically look and more to do with how YOU think and feel about how you look, the conversations you are having about yourself on a daily basis, and the standards you have for your life.

Interested in knowing more?

Schedule your one-on-one complimentary call today.

The life and body you desire is not a far-fetched dream. It is for YOU!

Sending lots of love,


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